She is a well to do Nigerian lady living in Las Palmas, Spain. The Edo State born lady had travelled to Nigeria in April 2013 and unknown to her, fate had a bitter package for her as she never returned to Spain the same again. The once beautiful lady was bathed with acid on her face and body while in Nigeria by an assailant she alleges her husband, Kingsley Ojugberu, paid to harm her. While the doctors are still battling to save her life in Spain, our Special Correspondent in Spain, Uchendu Precious Onuoha, got in contact with her through the Nigerian Embassy and she narrated her pathetic story.
When did you come to Spain?
The year 2000
Since then you have been living in Las Palmas?
I lived in Madrid for about a year and five months after which I came to Las Palmas.
When did you get married and with who?
That was in 2008 and with Kingsley Ojugberu
You met here or in Nigeria?
I met him in Nigeria. And it was through a friend of mine that worked together with me in my place of work and later went back to Nigeria. It happened that he was living in the same house where Kingsley lived, and he helped her. It was in that process that my friend informed me that there is a young man who saw your pictures and said he would like to talk to you. She connected us and from there we started interacting on phone until 2008 we met and got married in Lagos through the court.
When did he join you here in Spain?
In 2010, and it was not easy because I went through a lot of process which took almost one year before I succeeded to secure visa and travel documents for him to join me.
How many children do you have?
Just this girl (pointing to her daughter by her side); she just completed four years.
How was your relationship with your husband before this incident?
After he joined me in 2010 we were living fine, but we didn’t really live long as we were almost three years together before this incident.
When did this incident happen and what actually led to that?
It happened on April 20, 2013. Living together was good during the first two years. Within this period I was helping him right from Nigeria as things were not okay with him. I can say I am a successful person; I have got a lot of properties in Nigeria and here before we met and he came here. As we were living together as husband and wife, I put his name in two of my properties in Lagos. But the ones in Benin and others I did not put his name.
I buy and send goods to Nigeria, and about a year and four months before we went to Nigeria I sent a bus with goods to Nigeria, and it was cleared and sold by his brother and when I asked for the money, he could not be account for it. And I discovered that other things were going wrong as I found out that huge sums of money has been removed from the joint account we have with First Bank in Lagos. He had the account before and my name was added and I saved money in the account. And his brother also duped me of about one million naira in the house I bought in Shasha Lagos.
As a husband, I trusted him and kept my money with him, until I got to Nigeria and found out that things were going wrong as a lot of money have been taken from the account without my knowledge. I confronted him on that, and that led to an argument and I went to a doctor in Lagos he introduced to me as his uncle and reported to him. When we came back to Spain, I told him this is not going to be, because I found out now that everything I own is on him. I let him realise how I have helped him, even two of his brothers, I spent my money to bring them to Spain. And after all these they are still eating my money in Nigeria. Then we had a quarrel. And I decided to go Nigeria to change his name from the properties and the house in Shasha, which the payment was going through his account and open a new account to transfer the payment. While in Lagos, I went to the bank to withdraw money, the bank refused me saying that my husband made a call to the bank instructing that they should not release money from the account to me. And he knew that the money in the account is what I was meant to use in Nigeria.
I called him and he said no that he did not call the bank, and I told him that the bank is not lying that I was there and it is written on the screen, he cut the call. I was stranded. I managed to move down to Benin to tell my parents. My mother said she could not handle that alone. We contacted my uncle who suggested introducing me to a lawyer in Lagos to help me. Before travelling to Lagos I decided to do my hair in a salon near my uncle’s house and while there a boy walked in and my attention was drawn to the way he tied his hair with a piece of Rasta insignia. He said he was looking for somebody and as I raised my face, he stepped closer and splashed something on my face and body and dashed out immediately.
I felt horrible pains over my body and was rushed to a hospital. And the first hospital said they cannot treat my case and referred me to UBTH (University of Benin Teaching Hospital) where they could only administer pain reliefs and I heard the doctors saying that I would die if they keep me there that the best solution is to take me abroad for the treatment. When the doctor learnt I was living abroad, they invited the police to the hospital and a police report was prepared and arrangement was made to take me to Lagos and back to Spain.
How long did it take for you to come back to Spain after the incident?
Luckily for me, two days after I was flown back to Spain and from the airport straight to the hospital.
How have you been undergoing the treatment since then?
I must say that the Spanish doctors have tried a lot; I spent about three months in the first phase of the treatment at the hospital. I have done the first skin operation where they removed all the affected skins and replaced with other skins to cover up the body. They did not work much on the face.
Was the whole body affected?
No; from my chest upward.
What was your husband’s reaction when he was informed and how?
According to my sisters, that very Saturday, he woke them up at about 8 am asking them if they have heard from their sister. He told them to call me because he has a feeling that something bad has happened to me. Two hours later my mum called telling them that I have had an acid attack. And because of what he told them two hours back, they went and confronted him that he has succeeded in harming their sister and they quarreled. So that was how he knew. When I returned to Spain, I was taken straight to the hospital and I did not tell anybody. And at the hospital they asked me what happened to me. I told them that it happened in Nigeria. It was from the hospital that I called to inform my sisters that I was in Spain and that one of them should come and from there the news spread.
Did he come to the hospital?
He came to the hospital but my sisters did not allow him in.
So he was prevented from seeing you?
I later opened up to the nurses what happened and that I don’t want him to see me. And they invited the press who felt much concern how I managed to bear the pains without treatment from Nigeria to Spain.
Since then has he seen you?
Yes he saw me in the hospital once. He came to the hospital and was dragging with the nurses and eventually they let him in. But when he saw me he didn’t talk and they have to walk him out. That was how he saw me before they got him arrested after sometime. When the press came, they asked to know if I was having dispute with anybody and I told them he was the number one suspect.
He was arrested after he visited you at the hospital?
Yes, two days after because a civil defence security agent who knows me came to my shop and asked my sisters about me and they told him that I was in the hospital and he asked to know why I was in the hospital, my sister told him what happened to me in Nigeria. He was annoyed and reported the matter to the police. So that was how the police came in and have to protect my daughter and sisters because as I was inside, I am not sure of what could happen next and what his plans were.
After he was arrested did you make any allegation?
The police came to me at the hospital and I told them everything that happened. He threatened me, telling me that he is a black axe, that if I eventually separate from him, he will kill me. These were the threats. Though, I didn’t take them seriously because I thought he could not go to that extent. I so much trusted him because I thought that even if something happen and we have to separate he would not harm me because I have helped him a lot.
Perhaps they would have let him out but because of his declaration that an uncle whom I presented him to in Benin wanted to marry me and that is why the wives planned and attacked me with acid. And the question is how did he know that?
Has this matter gone to court?
Yes the matter has gone to court here in Spain but the one in Nigeria I don’t have the strength now. After investigations, they sentenced him for what was done here, like beating my sister. He was sentenced to two years and banned from coming close to me for five years. But my concern is Nigeria as I don’t have anybody except my old mother and she can’t do much.
What was the reaction of his family down home over this incident?
As I am talking to you now, I have not heard from any member of his family down home. Even the doctor he claimed to be his uncle has not called me or contacted my family. Two of his brothers I helped bring to Spain used to call but the police said I should avoid further stress. As at now, I don’t even know his family in Nigeria.
You did not have traditional marriage?
No traditional marriage only court wedding in Lagos
What has the Nigerian Embassy in Spain done to help you?
The Nigerian Embassy was contacted through the help of Nigerian community here; also the court here asked me to do that so that the embassy will intervene to protect my money in the bank and other properties in Nigeria. The embassy officials came immediately to see me, also visited Kingsley (her husband) in the prison. And they have contacted the bank in Nigeria and they were told what to do. And I am very happy for the help and concern the embassy has shown over my plight.
You run a shop here?
Yes, an African shop
Is it in your name?
Yes, for one year I registered it in his name, but when we started having dispute I removed his name but the rent remained on his name until last month.
What further plan do you have for your treatment?
I have gone to see a specialist and we have settled about the plastic surgery.
How much is that likely to cost?
That would cost about 43,000 euros. About eight million and six hundred thousand Naira (N8.6 million)
What else do you have to say?
The only thing I say is that I want him to leave me alone and go on his own without hurting me and my daughter. I want my family, money and properties to be protected. I would like to have my properties without fighting. And I don’t want that to cost my life or that of any member of my family.
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